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An unpopular way to stay happily married.
Trading freedom for depth
When you married you traded in a freedom to roam for the persistent presence of one. You swapped the search for one for a search to deeply understand one you married. You lost some things when you got married. If you try to get those freedoms back you’re risking your marriage. No one assumes they’re going to have an affair. No one assumes their spouse is going to have an affair. If you don’t put in boundaries in your relationships with other people you’re risking an affair. You might think that’s crazy talk but ask someone who is divorced if they assumed they’d get divorced. It all sounds impossible and paranoid, until it’s real.
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