There’s a set of identical triplets that live down the street. You would think identical triplets are a lot alike, but the more time I spend with them (they’re friends with my kids) the more I see their differences.
Your mom was right when she said you’re like a snowflake, unique in so many ways.
You are unique but your feelings are not. Your feelings are universal, especially your fears.
Watch this video and tell me if you have the same feelings as the people I describe.