Men try to give off an air of confidence but most wives are surprised to learn where that confidence comes from. Watch this video to find out where we get our confidence.
Wives, do these three things
1. Thank your husband for things he does do.
2. Thank you husband for something he doesn’t do.
3. Acknowledge something he got better at (but still needs to improve on).
Men need encouragement.
Most of us live and die by it and the truly scary thought is that if we don’t get it from our wives we will seek to get it somewhere else. Gary Chapman calls these words, “Word of affirmation” in his phenomenal book The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts. If you don’t believe this is important wives, I encourage you to ask your husband about it. If you don’t encourage him he may seek that encouragement from someone else and that’s not good for your marriage. Encouragement is a need for most men and in the top two of the five love languages. Physical touch is usually one of the other top two.
Hey wives, did you do this and if so what was his response?
Hey husbands, show this to your wife and let me know what she says.